You guys have this ideal in your heads which is fine. I do too. But I'm not stuck on it.
I have to live in the real world. Most attractive SEA women who fuck with foreigners have a similar scenario. I stopped being so bothered by this shit. With this specific girl I figured as much from day one!
She has a combo of positive qualities that are hard to find. Especially when you're traveling around. Attractive, sweet, caring, paid for herself, is trustworthy not to steal, speaks English, gives amazing massage, never complains, not annoying, etc.
I don't know why some of you get so hung up on me paying $10 for guesthouses, or $100 for her ticket home. She paid me back.
On a previous trip I was gansta. I made her pay for my entire hotel stay. She did it without blinking in eye.
I'm not saying she's a "good girl" nor a "bad girl". That childish. Some guys go to SEA to find a traditional virgin and wife her. It's possible I guess. I'm not trying to do that.
Put yourself in this girl's shoes. She grew up in a village foraging for food and bathing in a river. You expect her to waste her youth and looks working in a factory when dudes be like let me buy you a house, car, sponsor your entire family? I don't.
At the same time she was lazy and dumb not to get some kind of education or skill that could make her independent. So she's stuck with no job skills and dependable way to earn decent money.
What I hope guys can take away from this is seeing both sides of the coin. This is an issue for guys getting involved with hot uneducated girls in SEA. I read the Bangkok and Fisto threads so I wasn't naive about it. It sounded like they loved every minute of it. Kudos. I had my fun too.
But now I have no interest partying instead of sightseeing and plugging away at average chicks who ended up stealing, blackmailing, etc. I want time to enjoy the travel.
I went to every single destination in Laos and Chiang Rai with this girl. It was awesome. The drama was annoying. So I'm just looking for better ways to manage it. There been some guts making comments on social media making things worse. I agree. I know it's a symptom. But I'm a millennial. I'm not ready to give it up.
I think what most some of you have a hard time understanding is my prioritizing the travel over new pussy (or maybe trying to find an educated chick on a gap year). I don't care much about having a two week vacation with a wealthy upper class girl. I did that many times already. They end up giving me the same girly routine too. Plus their personalities and massage sucks. I'll just take the massage and manage the drama. Sue me.
I have to live in the real world. Most attractive SEA women who fuck with foreigners have a similar scenario. I stopped being so bothered by this shit. With this specific girl I figured as much from day one!
She has a combo of positive qualities that are hard to find. Especially when you're traveling around. Attractive, sweet, caring, paid for herself, is trustworthy not to steal, speaks English, gives amazing massage, never complains, not annoying, etc.
I don't know why some of you get so hung up on me paying $10 for guesthouses, or $100 for her ticket home. She paid me back.
On a previous trip I was gansta. I made her pay for my entire hotel stay. She did it without blinking in eye.
I'm not saying she's a "good girl" nor a "bad girl". That childish. Some guys go to SEA to find a traditional virgin and wife her. It's possible I guess. I'm not trying to do that.
Put yourself in this girl's shoes. She grew up in a village foraging for food and bathing in a river. You expect her to waste her youth and looks working in a factory when dudes be like let me buy you a house, car, sponsor your entire family? I don't.
At the same time she was lazy and dumb not to get some kind of education or skill that could make her independent. So she's stuck with no job skills and dependable way to earn decent money.
What I hope guys can take away from this is seeing both sides of the coin. This is an issue for guys getting involved with hot uneducated girls in SEA. I read the Bangkok and Fisto threads so I wasn't naive about it. It sounded like they loved every minute of it. Kudos. I had my fun too.
But now I have no interest partying instead of sightseeing and plugging away at average chicks who ended up stealing, blackmailing, etc. I want time to enjoy the travel.
I went to every single destination in Laos and Chiang Rai with this girl. It was awesome. The drama was annoying. So I'm just looking for better ways to manage it. There been some guts making comments on social media making things worse. I agree. I know it's a symptom. But I'm a millennial. I'm not ready to give it up.
I think what most some of you have a hard time understanding is my prioritizing the travel over new pussy (or maybe trying to find an educated chick on a gap year). I don't care much about having a two week vacation with a wealthy upper class girl. I did that many times already. They end up giving me the same girly routine too. Plus their personalities and massage sucks. I'll just take the massage and manage the drama. Sue me.