Cheers for all the replies so far.
She said we should be friends for now when I isolated her at the house party the other week. Whilst alone together, I kept making a move and we'd end up grinding a bit, but she kept teasing and pulling away and wouldn't even kiss me. After like 5 rounds of this she eventually said she doesn't know what she wants and doesn't want to hurt me. I replied along the lines of "you won't" and tried again, but I got the same response.
My issue is that I lack any sort of abundance whatsoever. I wouldn't be at all bothered if i had other girls lined up, but I don't - I have fairly high standards and it's rare that I meet someone I like.
I'm in my early-mid twenties and have only slept with two girls, both being long-term girlfriends. Asides from that, I have no other experience. Due to financial circumstances and focusing on building a business, I live at home with my mum, so I don't have the opportunity to bring a girl back to mine. I only ever meet women at parties/nights out with friends, who all live in a big city ~1 hour away from me.
My other issue is that I'm too nice. I don't want to act like a dick to women because I don't want to upset them. Yet, ironically, it's me who ends up getting pissed off because I just can't seem to close the deal with anyone. It's particularly annoying because despite the fact I've read a lot on here, roosh's site and TRP, I can never seem to put the theory into practice.
Quote: (05-11-2017 11:16 AM)heavy Wrote:
Quote: (05-11-2017 01:47 AM)RedKurrant Wrote:
...She basically told me she likes me, but wants to remain friends for now as we're both busy (exams for her, work and biz for me)
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General question though: How does this come up? I suppose I get it, if I harken back to my naivete' at the tender age of 18...getting to know a girl, showing some interest, and her explaining she wants to be friends. Even back then though, I bailed right away. Somehow, viscerally, I knew something was off about that. And it only happened to me once.
I just can't even fathom a girl telling me she wants to be friends. I can't imagine any type of a verbal exchange where the nature of our relationship comes up, before I've banged her at least a few times.
Quote: (05-11-2017 01:23 PM)Serious Sam Wrote:
Quote: (05-11-2017 01:47 AM)RedKurrant Wrote:
She basically told me she likes me, but wants to remain friends for now as we're both busy (exams for her, work and biz for me).
She likes you in her orbit, but she does not care to have your penis inside of her. And what is basically told you she likes you? You mean she was flirty, or was it her way of shooting you down when you asked her out?
She said we should be friends for now when I isolated her at the house party the other week. Whilst alone together, I kept making a move and we'd end up grinding a bit, but she kept teasing and pulling away and wouldn't even kiss me. After like 5 rounds of this she eventually said she doesn't know what she wants and doesn't want to hurt me. I replied along the lines of "you won't" and tried again, but I got the same response.
My issue is that I lack any sort of abundance whatsoever. I wouldn't be at all bothered if i had other girls lined up, but I don't - I have fairly high standards and it's rare that I meet someone I like.
I'm in my early-mid twenties and have only slept with two girls, both being long-term girlfriends. Asides from that, I have no other experience. Due to financial circumstances and focusing on building a business, I live at home with my mum, so I don't have the opportunity to bring a girl back to mine. I only ever meet women at parties/nights out with friends, who all live in a big city ~1 hour away from me.
My other issue is that I'm too nice. I don't want to act like a dick to women because I don't want to upset them. Yet, ironically, it's me who ends up getting pissed off because I just can't seem to close the deal with anyone. It's particularly annoying because despite the fact I've read a lot on here, roosh's site and TRP, I can never seem to put the theory into practice.