It's not easy to tell, especially if you don't have much experience with different women.
The core indicator is the significance/importance/affect she gives to the sex acts. The opposite of this is being "knowing" of sex, which I will explain below.
Giving significance to it is not the same as 'LMR'. When you think "significance", think how you would respond to being punched in the face as a layman versus as a boxer. To the layman, he will show signs and behaviours of affect. He will think about what happened to him for days after. To the boxer, it won't even factor into his day.
Resistance to the first sex is not correlated with her sexual history, so never use this as an indicator. There are reasons why girls on both ends of the spectrum would put up both heavy resistance or no resistance.
The less "knowing" of sex she is, the less partners she's had. Things that indicate knowing are:
- Any comments/criticisms/praise about the sex. It's like a wine taster: you can only comment on qualities of a wine if you've drunk enough of them to have references. If a girl makes any comments about the sex whatsoever I assume she's a slut.
- Any positive requests, i.e. "do this". Same as previous: she has reference points on her self, and coming at sex as "how do I maximize the quality of this bodily function" versus just thinking "John is banging me!". Positive requests = slut.
- Negative sex requests can mean either, you have to think about it based on the context and details. It can mean either she's not comfortable with that yet (low partner count) or she has enough reference points to know she doesn't like that (high partner count).
- Positive/assertive actions. Goes without saying that if she squats dick, she has high sexual experience and thus likely high partner count. This does not mean that passivity indicates low partner count -- it certainly doesn't. Passivity means nothing by itself.
- Smiling. Any smiling during sex = slut.
- Using the word 'fun' at any point regarding sex. "It is fun" = probably voracious slut.
- Cloaking language or behaviours. This is amusingly one of the strongest and easiest tells -- the girl attempting to cover her tells. You feel this as incongruent behavior. Like she pretends she doesn't know how to blowjob and acts like its an unfamiliar thing but actually she's mindful of her teeth and putting her lips right etc. Or she puts up a fuss about how she "doesn't do this" but then 10 minutes later is telling you how to give it to her etc.
- An expression more like "what is happening?" / unsureness (hard to explain) versus pleasure/enjoyment. If the primary expression, and especially sounds/words, during sex are pleasure (e.g. "oh yes", or seeming to deliberately make encouraging sounds not directly coupled to their sensations) then they're experienced.
- Paying attention to you and your feelings/expressions. A girl with little experience doesn't think about the man's pleasure, or her "performance" in making him feel good. It's like playing a sport for the first time -- you're not thinking tactics you're just thinking how to hit the ball; but after many games hitting the ball is muscle-memory and you start thinking tactics.
- Her thoughts and behaviour afterwards can also give some indication. The easier she's able to change her mental focus to other things afterwards, like what she's going to eat for dinner or has she received any messages, the less affect the sex has had on her mind because its moved away from "significant act" to "bodily function" AKA she's a sausage hoover.
- She courts the attention of many men (already mentioned in that "signs she's a slut" article). She's well familiar with the ropes and impatient for the next schlong, she just wants to make sure she's getting a good price so she prefers auction over the much slower "waiting for approaches by individual buyers". Low numbers of female friends versus guy friends indicates either lesbian or slut.
- She is American. From my small experience and observation of American women, they give sex the least significance of any group in the world. Very "bodily function". They talk of it in a frivolous way and talk of things like having kids with strong contempt -- i.e. very high hedonistic decoupling of the act from its purpose. As the fat chick is to donuts the American chick is to sex. No surprise the "they're all sluts" comment came from a member with an American flag next to his name.
I'm sure there are a bunch of others, those are just off the top of my head.
The core indicator is the significance/importance/affect she gives to the sex acts. The opposite of this is being "knowing" of sex, which I will explain below.
Giving significance to it is not the same as 'LMR'. When you think "significance", think how you would respond to being punched in the face as a layman versus as a boxer. To the layman, he will show signs and behaviours of affect. He will think about what happened to him for days after. To the boxer, it won't even factor into his day.
Resistance to the first sex is not correlated with her sexual history, so never use this as an indicator. There are reasons why girls on both ends of the spectrum would put up both heavy resistance or no resistance.
The less "knowing" of sex she is, the less partners she's had. Things that indicate knowing are:
- Any comments/criticisms/praise about the sex. It's like a wine taster: you can only comment on qualities of a wine if you've drunk enough of them to have references. If a girl makes any comments about the sex whatsoever I assume she's a slut.
- Any positive requests, i.e. "do this". Same as previous: she has reference points on her self, and coming at sex as "how do I maximize the quality of this bodily function" versus just thinking "John is banging me!". Positive requests = slut.
- Negative sex requests can mean either, you have to think about it based on the context and details. It can mean either she's not comfortable with that yet (low partner count) or she has enough reference points to know she doesn't like that (high partner count).
- Positive/assertive actions. Goes without saying that if she squats dick, she has high sexual experience and thus likely high partner count. This does not mean that passivity indicates low partner count -- it certainly doesn't. Passivity means nothing by itself.
- Smiling. Any smiling during sex = slut.
- Using the word 'fun' at any point regarding sex. "It is fun" = probably voracious slut.
- Cloaking language or behaviours. This is amusingly one of the strongest and easiest tells -- the girl attempting to cover her tells. You feel this as incongruent behavior. Like she pretends she doesn't know how to blowjob and acts like its an unfamiliar thing but actually she's mindful of her teeth and putting her lips right etc. Or she puts up a fuss about how she "doesn't do this" but then 10 minutes later is telling you how to give it to her etc.
- An expression more like "what is happening?" / unsureness (hard to explain) versus pleasure/enjoyment. If the primary expression, and especially sounds/words, during sex are pleasure (e.g. "oh yes", or seeming to deliberately make encouraging sounds not directly coupled to their sensations) then they're experienced.
- Paying attention to you and your feelings/expressions. A girl with little experience doesn't think about the man's pleasure, or her "performance" in making him feel good. It's like playing a sport for the first time -- you're not thinking tactics you're just thinking how to hit the ball; but after many games hitting the ball is muscle-memory and you start thinking tactics.
- Her thoughts and behaviour afterwards can also give some indication. The easier she's able to change her mental focus to other things afterwards, like what she's going to eat for dinner or has she received any messages, the less affect the sex has had on her mind because its moved away from "significant act" to "bodily function" AKA she's a sausage hoover.
- She courts the attention of many men (already mentioned in that "signs she's a slut" article). She's well familiar with the ropes and impatient for the next schlong, she just wants to make sure she's getting a good price so she prefers auction over the much slower "waiting for approaches by individual buyers". Low numbers of female friends versus guy friends indicates either lesbian or slut.
- She is American. From my small experience and observation of American women, they give sex the least significance of any group in the world. Very "bodily function". They talk of it in a frivolous way and talk of things like having kids with strong contempt -- i.e. very high hedonistic decoupling of the act from its purpose. As the fat chick is to donuts the American chick is to sex. No surprise the "they're all sluts" comment came from a member with an American flag next to his name.
I'm sure there are a bunch of others, those are just off the top of my head.