Shut up and let her talk. Don't push your judgment over her, if she feels comfortable she will talk non-stop after you have fucked her, revealing more that she would if she would feel that you are a traditional guy. This is useful as fuck, it has recently saved me from a new episode of possible betatude. I'll share so you see what I mean by this.
I met a petite 19 year old girl that was shy as hell. She was nervous as fuck at first, and so I entertained the idea that she could be a virgin, and you can be sure I started pedestalizing. Sure, I'm red, I knew I was doing that, and so I was more or less safe, but the mind processes were still there. Long story short, I end up having sex with her, and as she's resting her head in my chest she begins to talk. "You are the first guy who made x, bla bla bla", I just make funny remarks and she opens more. Ends up she's bisexual, has been with more guys that she should by her age, you get the picture.
Now, days after that, we're having coffee, and she begins to tell me a story, one of the characters was a guy that she...met. I put on a smile and call her out "It's alright, you can tell me, I'm not going to judge you", and she admits she was with him. What happened, you might ask? She decided I was bf material, and so DECIDED to start reserving details of her past to herself. If I would have been pre-judgmental since the first moment she would have never revealed to me what she did. That could have been a fucking disaster. Imagine it, me thinking I found a new unicorn to make her my gf, it sends shivers down my spine. Now I'm safe, my mind is at rest, and I can continue my red-pill learning without problems.
TL;DR: Shut up and watch Mad Men.
I met a petite 19 year old girl that was shy as hell. She was nervous as fuck at first, and so I entertained the idea that she could be a virgin, and you can be sure I started pedestalizing. Sure, I'm red, I knew I was doing that, and so I was more or less safe, but the mind processes were still there. Long story short, I end up having sex with her, and as she's resting her head in my chest she begins to talk. "You are the first guy who made x, bla bla bla", I just make funny remarks and she opens more. Ends up she's bisexual, has been with more guys that she should by her age, you get the picture.
Now, days after that, we're having coffee, and she begins to tell me a story, one of the characters was a guy that she...met. I put on a smile and call her out "It's alright, you can tell me, I'm not going to judge you", and she admits she was with him. What happened, you might ask? She decided I was bf material, and so DECIDED to start reserving details of her past to herself. If I would have been pre-judgmental since the first moment she would have never revealed to me what she did. That could have been a fucking disaster. Imagine it, me thinking I found a new unicorn to make her my gf, it sends shivers down my spine. Now I'm safe, my mind is at rest, and I can continue my red-pill learning without problems.
TL;DR: Shut up and watch Mad Men.