Good input Samseau and good story from OP.
I hate to discuss heresy here, but what about the possibility she's a relationship chick. Someone who actually wants to pair bond and have a day to day relationship with a guy?
This isn't a rhetorical question or a veiled criticism. I'm an LTR personality, and if I were the OP I'd have much rather have spent the [three (?) hours + functional recovery time (post-alcohol)] at home editing a movie than hanging around in a bar-- but I'd like to have a charming chick like you describe home with me!
From his writing style, I'm guessing the poster doesn't want an LTR, but let's say he did -- his game obviously got him to the point that she had some interest.
If you wanted an LTR with this chick, what should be done differently?
Is the here consensus bagging a chick for LTR is IDENTICAL to SNL strategy? Roosh has argued that and I'm not sure I agree. Since I suck at either lol I'm interested in the response.
NITPICKING:
No disrespect here, but does anyone think her giving you a dollar smacks of some condescension? Maybe she saw you didn't tip?
TO me the "are you really going to call" sounds plaintive, like she's an LTR chick.
Also, she said CALL and you TEXTED? Isn't that against the "higher emotion" rule of communication?
SPECULATION:
One idea I have from this story is she's a high value chick and knows it ( she's Murkan, right?), wants an LTR, and and is confident enough to show interest. However she still feels humiliated by past pump-and-dumps, and isn't looking for notches she knows she can get. Her knowledge of bar culture ( you're supposed to tip, maybe she was a bartender) indicates a period of promiscuity which she probably doesn't want to continue. But she's a risk taker, few chicks are bold enough to push their number on you like that. She's got 20, 30, 50 notches ( many drunken) and is starting to feel gross about it.
One think I know is that even as a GUY, I don't like fucking a hot chick once and finding out she didn't like me, and doesn't want to know me.
I want at least a few weeks or months of banging her brains out to make the pain of losing her less.
I don't claim any moral superiority for liking LTR, I just have different neurology I think. Pair bonding happens faster and stronger.
I hate to discuss heresy here, but what about the possibility she's a relationship chick. Someone who actually wants to pair bond and have a day to day relationship with a guy?
This isn't a rhetorical question or a veiled criticism. I'm an LTR personality, and if I were the OP I'd have much rather have spent the [three (?) hours + functional recovery time (post-alcohol)] at home editing a movie than hanging around in a bar-- but I'd like to have a charming chick like you describe home with me!
From his writing style, I'm guessing the poster doesn't want an LTR, but let's say he did -- his game obviously got him to the point that she had some interest.
If you wanted an LTR with this chick, what should be done differently?
Is the here consensus bagging a chick for LTR is IDENTICAL to SNL strategy? Roosh has argued that and I'm not sure I agree. Since I suck at either lol I'm interested in the response.
NITPICKING:
No disrespect here, but does anyone think her giving you a dollar smacks of some condescension? Maybe she saw you didn't tip?
TO me the "are you really going to call" sounds plaintive, like she's an LTR chick.
Also, she said CALL and you TEXTED? Isn't that against the "higher emotion" rule of communication?
SPECULATION:
One idea I have from this story is she's a high value chick and knows it ( she's Murkan, right?), wants an LTR, and and is confident enough to show interest. However she still feels humiliated by past pump-and-dumps, and isn't looking for notches she knows she can get. Her knowledge of bar culture ( you're supposed to tip, maybe she was a bartender) indicates a period of promiscuity which she probably doesn't want to continue. But she's a risk taker, few chicks are bold enough to push their number on you like that. She's got 20, 30, 50 notches ( many drunken) and is starting to feel gross about it.
One think I know is that even as a GUY, I don't like fucking a hot chick once and finding out she didn't like me, and doesn't want to know me.
I want at least a few weeks or months of banging her brains out to make the pain of losing her less.
I don't claim any moral superiority for liking LTR, I just have different neurology I think. Pair bonding happens faster and stronger.