Quote: (04-18-2017 10:48 AM)Sleek2b Wrote:
Ok... you know what? fuck it.
After looking at pictures of girls posing with their coffea, i am like "why? What is the point?"
I have better things to do than creating a glorified marketing page of myself.
It actually makes me feel to limit even more my social media. It just looks like some kind of digital fast food for insecure egos.
From that moment on, i will consider women using IG heavily just as narcistic people not worth my time, the same as cutting yourself from toxic people.
It is just a tool to make yourself the mindless sheep following stupid trends and brands. Would you like to date those kind of people? Not me. If they lack good judgement there then they will not be able to appreciate your true self anyway.
My opinion might offend some of you, if you have a different view I will be glad to hear it.
The issue is you could use this as an excuse to not engage with attractive young women at all. The hot girls in the club or on Instagram are undeniably narcissistic, good luck finding a young attractive female who isn't. A lifetime of being the object of sycophantic male thirst will engender this.
And pretty much all women want some kind of social validation, whether this is through 'likes' on facebook or Instagram, or attention from guys at clubs/parties. Likewise many of them pretty much are sheep when it comes to trends/brands, hence the disproportionate female interest in fashion and contribution to consumerism (how many guys list 'shopping' as one of their hobbies compared to girls?).
Instagram is just the latest manifestation of this, it's not exactly anything new. You can't blame technology for the underlying sociobiological cause, or escape the implications of this if you want to pursue game.