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The standards that some of you present for women are insane and I truly think impossible to find. I have met thousands of women and I don't think any of them fit the standards of majority of Rvf forum members.
It always fascinates me when guys come here, supposedly to improve themselves, then make these types of blanket statements. OP, you are talking to men who have met, banged, been in LTRs, and some even married women who met our supposedly ridiculous standards--women who didn't have even 1/100th of the drama your girl brings to the table.
You obviously sell yourself short in life. I know because I remember having similar thoughts when I was younger. You need to ask yourself, do I want to be great man or an average Joe who works a miserable job to support a miserable bitch wife who does a sub-par job of raising his miserable, ill-behaved children?
You want to know how guys like us found better quality women? We railed against the self-defeating attitudes that had been programmed within us from birth, lifted a middle finger to the establishment that constantly told us to settle and play it safe, and worked our asses off and took risks, both failing and succeeding along the way.
When I see comments like yours, it reminds me of why most of us joined this forum: to escape the attitudes of basic normies, to get called on our bullshit so we can become stronger men, and also to share the wisdom we've gained with guys who are struggling with the same mindsets we swore off long ago, but still battle on a daily basis.
Your attitude is one of scarcity, and the attitude of a basic man on the path to living a life no better than those of the millions of miserable fucks surrounding him. Do you desire something better for yourself? Or would you rather blow your retirement fund sending a haggard woman to Betty Ford? You sit here railing against other women, relying on the tired old line, "I don't want to deal with trashy Western girls," but don't really seem like you are too experienced with them based on the way you take everything your girl says at face value. I know, the world can be a big, scary place, and there are plenty of bitchy women with shitty attitudes. Finding a suitable mate is difficult, just like being a great man is difficult and requires constant work.
Either drop the self-defeating, "I'll never find anything better" attitude, or accept a life of mediocrity. The choice is yours.