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He recommends running events like this at the end of his book. But it's more as a way to get invited to private parties.
Organizing events increases your social circle and demonstrates high value. But it seldom results in same night lays. And at worst it just attracts a bunch of beta orbiter women who don't pass your boner test that you put in the friend zone where they fill up all your time with their bullshit.
Getting phone numbers when directing an event for a charity or non-profit is unfortunately hard to convert to anything useful. Yeah, you've now got several girls' numbers. But it's hard to change over from "Hi, I'm the guy who organized this charity thing at the office." to "Hi, I'm the guy you want between your legs boning you hard." Conversion is difficult since they've already framed you as "cancer walk guy" --not very sexy. Now your problem is how to break that mental frame they've placed you in and become more.
The drinks afterwards is your window, but here you're still framed as event host, making it difficult to single anyone out. The herd you gathered for the event will now tend to gather around you looking for direction and a sense of belonging, and it's hard to talk up a woman when you've got a herd watching your every move.
You're going to have more luck if you convert running this event into invitations to their parties. Then people will be relaxed around you and you'll not be in the role of directing (and being watched by) a herd, because now you're not the one hosting it. Here again, the popular club has some scripts for finding out what events are going on you can text out.
Overall, the Event Organizer approach is a long, slow drawn out way of getting to know a few girls that takes weeks and a lot of investment of time to work.
It's very slow and inefficient compared to Day Bang's methods.
He recommends running events like this at the end of his book. But it's more as a way to get invited to private parties.
Organizing events increases your social circle and demonstrates high value. But it seldom results in same night lays. And at worst it just attracts a bunch of beta orbiter women who don't pass your boner test that you put in the friend zone where they fill up all your time with their bullshit.
Getting phone numbers when directing an event for a charity or non-profit is unfortunately hard to convert to anything useful. Yeah, you've now got several girls' numbers. But it's hard to change over from "Hi, I'm the guy who organized this charity thing at the office." to "Hi, I'm the guy you want between your legs boning you hard." Conversion is difficult since they've already framed you as "cancer walk guy" --not very sexy. Now your problem is how to break that mental frame they've placed you in and become more.
The drinks afterwards is your window, but here you're still framed as event host, making it difficult to single anyone out. The herd you gathered for the event will now tend to gather around you looking for direction and a sense of belonging, and it's hard to talk up a woman when you've got a herd watching your every move.
You're going to have more luck if you convert running this event into invitations to their parties. Then people will be relaxed around you and you'll not be in the role of directing (and being watched by) a herd, because now you're not the one hosting it. Here again, the popular club has some scripts for finding out what events are going on you can text out.
Overall, the Event Organizer approach is a long, slow drawn out way of getting to know a few girls that takes weeks and a lot of investment of time to work.
It's very slow and inefficient compared to Day Bang's methods.
"Alpha children wear grey. They work much harder than we do, because they're so frightfully clever. I'm awfully glad I'm a Beta, because I don't work so hard. And then we are much better than the Gammas and Deltas. Gammas are stupid. They all wear green, and Delta children wear khaki. Oh no, I don't want to play with Delta children. And Epsilons are still worse. They're too stupid to be able to read or write. Besides they wear black, which is such a beastly color. I'm so glad I'm a Beta."
--Aldous Huxley, Brave New World