This reminds me of the How to leverage high IQ for game thread.
When talking about attracting women, simply being smart, having money, being responsible, and various other personal improvements and states of being aren't going to get them onto you. These are tools you can use to better your life, but you need to find a way to leverage them and convey them in a sort of way that will make it easier for you to attract women.
This is why tons of filthy rich men are total schlubs with women and wind up doing p4p.
This is why tons of dudes with competition-level physiques don't get tons of pussy and often will date waayyy down.
This is why many men who do "the right thing" in life are often sexless and alone.
Game is the piece of the puzzle that is missing. If having sex with attractive women is your goal, then game is honestly more important than all of those things. Game is knowing how to interact with women to get favorable results from them.
OP, the fact that you have been smart with your money, responsible, and in-shape isn't why you slugged it out with 4's through your late teens and early 20's. Women aren't allergic to successful and responsible men. The reason you couldn't get quality pussy earlier in life is simply because you were inexperienced and likely piss-poor at interacting with attractive women.
I see too often a lot of men think "If I just made $xxxxxx/year then I could be a baller and get tons of women" or "If I could get to xxxlbs. with only x.x% body fat then women would be crawling all over me" or "If I get my dress and hairstyle onpoint then I will be able to get women" - truth is all of that shit is extra, and none of it makes a man. Sure, looking great and throwing around money will get you some initial attention, but having a flat personality and being awkward, shy, and anxious once you are in front of a woman is going to leave you empty handed almost 100% of the time.
When talking about attracting women, simply being smart, having money, being responsible, and various other personal improvements and states of being aren't going to get them onto you. These are tools you can use to better your life, but you need to find a way to leverage them and convey them in a sort of way that will make it easier for you to attract women.
This is why tons of filthy rich men are total schlubs with women and wind up doing p4p.
This is why tons of dudes with competition-level physiques don't get tons of pussy and often will date waayyy down.
This is why many men who do "the right thing" in life are often sexless and alone.
Game is the piece of the puzzle that is missing. If having sex with attractive women is your goal, then game is honestly more important than all of those things. Game is knowing how to interact with women to get favorable results from them.
OP, the fact that you have been smart with your money, responsible, and in-shape isn't why you slugged it out with 4's through your late teens and early 20's. Women aren't allergic to successful and responsible men. The reason you couldn't get quality pussy earlier in life is simply because you were inexperienced and likely piss-poor at interacting with attractive women.
I see too often a lot of men think "If I just made $xxxxxx/year then I could be a baller and get tons of women" or "If I could get to xxxlbs. with only x.x% body fat then women would be crawling all over me" or "If I get my dress and hairstyle onpoint then I will be able to get women" - truth is all of that shit is extra, and none of it makes a man. Sure, looking great and throwing around money will get you some initial attention, but having a flat personality and being awkward, shy, and anxious once you are in front of a woman is going to leave you empty handed almost 100% of the time.