I just got a PM from the OP that he already received tough love so at this point I'm just bullying him. So my message to him:
Not my intention. I want you to succeed and so do many others who already posted here. So we gave you advice. Yet, you decided to not follow our advice and continue to seek validation through your own actions and a few PMs on the forum. I hope there aren't any guys that are providing alternate advice on PM and sympathizing with your actions. If they are, they are setting you up for failure. There is absolutely nothing healthy about what you are doing. Furthermore, a few of us believe that you will ruin your daughter's life. That is a travesty since she's a child and she deserves better. I have children; 3 of them. So, trust me, I know what will fail them. So, believe me, we care. You said you already received tough love. I know you did but it didn't have any effect on you so we're asking you to be a man and step it up a bit. If you don't, it does not do any damage to us. If you do, we are happy to help you and welcome you openly. This isn't bullying; it's men being men.
Let us know your thoughts.
Not my intention. I want you to succeed and so do many others who already posted here. So we gave you advice. Yet, you decided to not follow our advice and continue to seek validation through your own actions and a few PMs on the forum. I hope there aren't any guys that are providing alternate advice on PM and sympathizing with your actions. If they are, they are setting you up for failure. There is absolutely nothing healthy about what you are doing. Furthermore, a few of us believe that you will ruin your daughter's life. That is a travesty since she's a child and she deserves better. I have children; 3 of them. So, trust me, I know what will fail them. So, believe me, we care. You said you already received tough love. I know you did but it didn't have any effect on you so we're asking you to be a man and step it up a bit. If you don't, it does not do any damage to us. If you do, we are happy to help you and welcome you openly. This isn't bullying; it's men being men.
Let us know your thoughts.