Quote: (01-24-2012 02:34 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
This is for people who don't understand the game.
1) You should never date. No movies, flowers, concerts, rock climbing, and never a dinner.
a) You should have traditional dates with your LTR to keep things interesting, and cement her feelings towards you....but
b) Why do you have an LTR?
2) Money is primarily for logistics.
- money gets you where the hot chicks are - be it the best clubs, best parts of town, best parts of the world. Sometimes it's cover, sometimes it's the clothes you wear, often times it's going out all the time - the logistics cost
- money pays for the cab
- money gets you a good place for having sex.
- money speeds things up, but not because you're using your money to impress a girl by buying her things.
If you're really trying to ball on a budget, there's always groupon, restaurant weeks, and romantic walks in the park...but if you're trying to bang, all that pinching and bargaining is the surest way to screen out chicks.
If you're actually balling, you're going to a tasting menu @ Per Se because you're a foodie and she's along for the ride. You're snowboarding in Vermont cause you like to snowboard, and she can come along.
Money is for you.
Money is for logistics.
If money gets spent on a chick because of your lifestyle, or because you're trying to bang her out as fast as possible - so be it.
But money is not for dating.
Great post. Except for the rock climbing part. After you've banged a chick on a multi pitch on a ledge 1000ft off the ground you'll know what I mean. Ledge sex on a wall should be on everyone's bucket list. But I imagine you're talking about before the bang is a sure thing...