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(02-20-2017 11:34 PM)polar Wrote:  

Escalate physically or verbally, but you can't do both until you're in a location where you can seal the deal. In fact, verbalizing it makes it real and she's more likely to clam up with ASD. On the contrary, I've found that denying the physical escalation works almost like a cheat code, she's not as likely to tell you off if the rules of the game you're playing are that "it's her fault".

Thank you, sensei. I will contemplate this further.