Your goal with iGirls is not to "develop a connection" or "build attraction." These things will never happen over text; via text one guy she's never met is pretty much materially the same as any other, and these hoes have chatted with hundreds or thousands and have seen it all.
If you've done a good job with your profile and pics much of the work has already been done for you. Your goal with text game on the sites is mainly for you, to see if she's digs your look and profile enough, and serious enough about meeting someone IRL, to hold her attention long enough for 8-10 text messages to be exchanged. Because these sites are absolutely stuffed to the bursting with timewasters and filthy casuals - a cynic would say the sites are designed to attract precisely that type.
Try to keep it clever and interesting, but basic "elderly chat" works fine for this purpose. The goal is to move her off the site, onto SMS, pitch the date, and meet in the real world ASAP, where the real game will go down. Many will eject along the way, and that's fine. They were never serious to start with, and your most awesomest "attraction building" "developing a real connection" text game never would have made a whit of difference in that outcome.
If you've done a good job with your profile and pics much of the work has already been done for you. Your goal with text game on the sites is mainly for you, to see if she's digs your look and profile enough, and serious enough about meeting someone IRL, to hold her attention long enough for 8-10 text messages to be exchanged. Because these sites are absolutely stuffed to the bursting with timewasters and filthy casuals - a cynic would say the sites are designed to attract precisely that type.
Try to keep it clever and interesting, but basic "elderly chat" works fine for this purpose. The goal is to move her off the site, onto SMS, pitch the date, and meet in the real world ASAP, where the real game will go down. Many will eject along the way, and that's fine. They were never serious to start with, and your most awesomest "attraction building" "developing a real connection" text game never would have made a whit of difference in that outcome.