Quote: (02-09-2017 03:26 AM)the-dream Wrote:
I disagree. You don't have to talk about it at all. In fact, it's best not to talk about sex until you're both comfortable fucking each other. Assuming this is a girl who you haven't given any commitment to, she'd want to feel like "it just happened" and if it feels at all planned, it's less likely to happen!
this is WAY too categorical. just recently i e-mailed "don't be afraid of me - i don't bite. ok, ok, i DO bite, but very very very gently and don't leave marks (on a BAD day)". she ate it up and responded with (paraphrasing): "i'm not gonna lie, but that sounds very appealing" and BOOM! the wall is DOWN through a simple single barely sexual e-mail.