It's not a one-size-fits all prescription. Whether you want an LTR or you're a plate spinner, it's all about whether you're happy or not. If it's no fun anymore, it's time to next.
Too many people try to hold onto relationships because of the sunk investment and they lose sight of the fact the relationship has devolved to the point of constant damage-control and walking on eggshells. It's one of those slippery slope things. You have to step back and ask yourself whether you're really happy or not--you're not happy enough. If it's become so drama filled that you need to constantly ask yourself whether it's worth continuing--odds are it isn't. It's as simple as that. Minor issues will not drive you to that sort of inner-debate. For some people, seemingly minor issues are major ones or vice-versa. People are different and they have different expectations.
Too many people try to hold onto relationships because of the sunk investment and they lose sight of the fact the relationship has devolved to the point of constant damage-control and walking on eggshells. It's one of those slippery slope things. You have to step back and ask yourself whether you're really happy or not--you're not happy enough. If it's become so drama filled that you need to constantly ask yourself whether it's worth continuing--odds are it isn't. It's as simple as that. Minor issues will not drive you to that sort of inner-debate. For some people, seemingly minor issues are major ones or vice-versa. People are different and they have different expectations.