[Dalaran1991]

The problem about telling newbies "next" is that, it's similar to a billionaire telling a young first time start up to next the first client who gives him troubles, because there's so many damn clients out there. He then ends up learning nothing about business, client relation and customer service.

I can only imagine the frustration of newbies, when they come up here and try to work out a situation, then get an immediate cliché answer that has very little to do with game itself.

Abundance is a mindset, a very useful one at that, but it's not game itself.

How do I get that hot girl's attention who wont talk to me? Next
My plate has gone cold, what to? Next
My LTR is being uncompliant. Next

Tell me what game lessons you learn from doing the above. That there's plenty of women around who will fall for you? That's a reality that will not be true for the vast majority of men. Not to mention that most girls who can be nexted easily are rarely 7 or above. Fine if you are a dumpster driver.

You learn game by doing hundreds and hundreds of approaches, and carrying out/following each approach as far as it can go. You dont tuck tail and bail the first moment things go south. Abundance mentality means "you will be fine if you lose this girl", not "at the first sight of trouble, GTFO" that so many people here are preaching.

Go see the high quality couples who are truly successful and happy, see if they bail on each other at first sight of trouble. Those people stick with each other through high and low, thick and thin and grow a bond together. If you say couples like that dont exist, get out more, listen more and next less.

But I do digest that most Western girls you approach or meet in bars, are more trouble than they are worth, so next is prolly the most time-saving option (not the best though)