I'm a big 6'3" 285lb black man. I've been dealing with this shit all my life. Open hand gestures, smiles, and humor are my go to weapons in my disarmament arsenal.
It's absolutely necessary in every aspect of life from dating to ordering a phucking cheeseburger from scary ass people. From purse clutching, to flat-out avoiding me, I've seen it all!
It's absolutely necessary in every aspect of life from dating to ordering a phucking cheeseburger from scary ass people. From purse clutching, to flat-out avoiding me, I've seen it all!