I think if I channel this sort of obsessive behavior into a new hobby or something, then the benefit would work that way. Just the fact that something is preoccupying my mind more than other things seems like a natural turn-on to other girls. I'm too far advanced in the game to get really depressed or emotionally sick anymore from a oneitis, but it's still lurking there. And it literally is a situation where I can never get this girl, unless I completely sacrifice my job/life (which obviously won't happen for a chick).
I just thought it was interesting how a couple years ago, oneitis would turn me into a blubbering, emotional fool. Now it's actually been useful in meeting new girls and getting intimate with a rapidity I haven't experienced in awhile.
I just thought it was interesting how a couple years ago, oneitis would turn me into a blubbering, emotional fool. Now it's actually been useful in meeting new girls and getting intimate with a rapidity I haven't experienced in awhile.