Quote: (01-25-2012 10:41 AM)pitt Wrote:
Many people on here and on PUA community tend to bash a lot the complimenting game as if it was one of the poorest game one could run.
I dont like throwing compliments to just any type of girl, even if she is really my type but there are some that i feel obliged to compliment, they are truly unique.
I have fucked so many girls using the complimenting game, dont get me wrong, this game has also fucked up many potential bangs (i dont know if they just lost interest or if it was me who was coming across as being desperate, i believe is the latter one).
But i just noticed that the more i get into this web game community, the lesser i feel like using the complimenting game. Fuck, i was about to do it just now to a girl who i speak with on msn (im moving to her), then i thought that im breaking the law of the game.
Then both sides of me were arguing - one was telling me that this strategy actually got me laid many times and that i shouldnt give a fuck but the other side is telling me that this strategy has also fucked up many potential bangs.
So im asking the community here. Is the complimenting game just a bad strategy overall?
The reason why the PUA crowd is so against complimenting girls is because of the PUA consumer demographic.
The people that they sell to, generally speaking, have no confidence or Game.
A guy with no confidence or Game that compliments a girl comes off weak.
If you compliment girls from a position of strength, it works.