Quote: (01-14-2017 03:32 AM)Irish Wrote:
3. link my self esteem to trying to impress guys on the internet
I see where you're coming from but hey, at least OP went out and did it vs some guys that are scared to go anywhere, wallowing in a sorry state of inaction, the result being as the west goes down they go down with it. At least he GTFO and got a lot of it out of his system. I wish I'd had the sense to do a trip like this when I was just out of high school instead of going to college just because social conditioning told me I should. I didn't know what I really wanted. I had a vague desire of asians, but at that age it just wasn't in my sphere of consciousness to go half way across the world, stay there for 2 months and try to bang as many asians as possible. This guy had a clear, focused desire for something and acted on it.
And it does happen occasionally that some seemingly average guys still go to SEA and go through terrible dry spells that are only broken by the occasional 4-5.
OP is only 19 so this first trip was a great success, but with his stats if he does go again I'd be interested to hear about his strategies for getting at the highest quality girls out there, not likely available online. The problem in the "how" part of the thread is that it is impossible for most readers to suddenly become 19 years of age, handsome, ripped, 6ft+, etc. But what do you expect in the way of advice from a 19 year old?
I still say good on him because he admits he doesn't even know why he did it other than he wanted to fuck a lot of girls. He took action which places him way ahead of me at 19 still stuck with one girl and lame disney ideals about girls and the world as a whole. He has plenty of time to develop into a great man.
One thing about being really muscular, though. I work out, am fairly toned but still average. I could technically dedicate a lot of time and effort into becoming ripped, then I could go to BKK, post the pic online and sit and watch the sluts circle around like flies on shit. I don't know what it is... I prefer to at least have to run some "game" or just show my personality, even if it is only a little bit, because I feel a lot less like a piece of meat, and more that they (at least partly) are there because they like me. It also filters out the sluts that would fuck just because of a body, which tend to be the lower quality girls. I also wouldn't be able to go to SEA and not at least try to get a different source of (hopefully better quality) girls through random day approaches.