A few tips:
1. Unless for a very specific reason (explanation, story or similar), your messages must never be longer than hers.
2. Never use smileys, cute or endearing words unless in an obviously humorous or cynical context.
3. Be flirty and use double entendres from the start.
4. Always read the message before sending - if it sounds needy or beta, scrap it and write again.
5. Always let her send the final message in a conversation.
6. Make her wait - don't answer promptly. Then again, be careful not to lose her. This is the trickiest point.
7. From personal experience: the longer I texted with a girl online before the first meeting, the more the chance for that meeting decreased. Keep it short and try to get a date as soon as possible. You need not even fuck up - the internet dating scene has 10 times more guys than women and she can bounce upon a better opportunity at any time.
8. Tying into the previous point - you do not want to escalate too much because she will feel pressured to do more when you first meet and might flake just because of that. So my advice would be to never go too sexual before the first real life date.
9. The process of escalating itself is that you either drop subtle hints using double speak and wait for her to latch on or you just drop the bomb directly. The first option is less risky, but the second one does wonders on the right woman.
1. Unless for a very specific reason (explanation, story or similar), your messages must never be longer than hers.
2. Never use smileys, cute or endearing words unless in an obviously humorous or cynical context.
3. Be flirty and use double entendres from the start.
4. Always read the message before sending - if it sounds needy or beta, scrap it and write again.
5. Always let her send the final message in a conversation.
6. Make her wait - don't answer promptly. Then again, be careful not to lose her. This is the trickiest point.
7. From personal experience: the longer I texted with a girl online before the first meeting, the more the chance for that meeting decreased. Keep it short and try to get a date as soon as possible. You need not even fuck up - the internet dating scene has 10 times more guys than women and she can bounce upon a better opportunity at any time.
8. Tying into the previous point - you do not want to escalate too much because she will feel pressured to do more when you first meet and might flake just because of that. So my advice would be to never go too sexual before the first real life date.
9. The process of escalating itself is that you either drop subtle hints using double speak and wait for her to latch on or you just drop the bomb directly. The first option is less risky, but the second one does wonders on the right woman.