Good thoughts....
I have no problem criticizing myself as I know it's a key for positive change.
My wife was insecure about her body, and life, she was a really miserable person and very immature.
I had a bad feeling from the start, but of course always hoped she'd grow up and change one day, and I had more than average tolerance keeping the kids in mind as well.
I'm not sure what happened to her, maybe someone here can shed some light.... in the end, I tried helping her feel better about herself, bought her boobs, got her into feeling and dressing sexy, but at the end of it, she screwed up bad financially, knew I'd be pissed, and jumped into a relationship with someone that was really low value and everyone laughs at her. I'm still not sure why she chose that instead of a high value guy. It's like she's so depressed about herself that she doesn't want anything good. And she always thought I'd leave her even though I was faithful the entire marriage. Just super insecure and sees herself as a really low value girl.
Because of that I can't stand girls that are similar now. I love ones that are super confident and make me feel like I'd be lucky to have them.
I have no problem criticizing myself as I know it's a key for positive change.
My wife was insecure about her body, and life, she was a really miserable person and very immature.
I had a bad feeling from the start, but of course always hoped she'd grow up and change one day, and I had more than average tolerance keeping the kids in mind as well.
I'm not sure what happened to her, maybe someone here can shed some light.... in the end, I tried helping her feel better about herself, bought her boobs, got her into feeling and dressing sexy, but at the end of it, she screwed up bad financially, knew I'd be pissed, and jumped into a relationship with someone that was really low value and everyone laughs at her. I'm still not sure why she chose that instead of a high value guy. It's like she's so depressed about herself that she doesn't want anything good. And she always thought I'd leave her even though I was faithful the entire marriage. Just super insecure and sees herself as a really low value girl.
Because of that I can't stand girls that are similar now. I love ones that are super confident and make me feel like I'd be lucky to have them.