Honestly man, after reading about people telling me what to do back and forth, I just said fuck it, you should do what you want, and you can also let the girl figure out what she wants to do.
You should be surrounding yourself with women you enjoy, that compliment your life, and are of good quality.
That being said:
1. Yes she can stay over and chill, you don't need to tell her to stay over.
But don't act all needy like, if she wants to cuddle great, if not, and just lay on your chest or your arm around you that's fine also.
Some girls cling to you like white on rice
Some girls want to just their head on you
Some girls want you to hold them
Some girls only want it for a few minutes, some for an hour
Some girls don't want that at all
I don't know if there is a benefit or not of denying her this, you banged, you won so it doesn't matter.
2. I usually ask her why she decided to hook up with me, what she dug about me, it really helps hone in your skills with other women. I don't pretend to try and have deep meaningful convos with them, that's why I come on RVF for.
I just enjoy their company and the warmth of their body. I'm not afraid to say I love being able to lay in bed with women after sex and just enjoy that.
EDIT: Did I mention the morning bang ?
That shit puts me in such a good mood all day - and I've gotten texts from girls that me banging them out put them in a good mood all day.
You should be surrounding yourself with women you enjoy, that compliment your life, and are of good quality.
That being said:
1. Yes she can stay over and chill, you don't need to tell her to stay over.
But don't act all needy like, if she wants to cuddle great, if not, and just lay on your chest or your arm around you that's fine also.
Some girls cling to you like white on rice
Some girls want to just their head on you
Some girls want you to hold them
Some girls only want it for a few minutes, some for an hour
Some girls don't want that at all
I don't know if there is a benefit or not of denying her this, you banged, you won so it doesn't matter.
2. I usually ask her why she decided to hook up with me, what she dug about me, it really helps hone in your skills with other women. I don't pretend to try and have deep meaningful convos with them, that's why I come on RVF for.
I just enjoy their company and the warmth of their body. I'm not afraid to say I love being able to lay in bed with women after sex and just enjoy that.
EDIT: Did I mention the morning bang ?
That shit puts me in such a good mood all day - and I've gotten texts from girls that me banging them out put them in a good mood all day.