Hey all, just curious how you all feel about post-sex cuddling and letting a chick stay over. I know this thread has been talked about previously and I did see Heartiste article about leaving after sex (or kicking her out after sex) and it has made me question if there is something I am missing.
In the past, if I were to bang a chick I had no interest in, this is exactly what I would do. At this point, however, I try to (for the most part) only bang chicks that I like being around and do not mind spending time with. Because of this, I typically will allow them to stay over if they feel the desire. If they want to go home, I let them do that also. The main benefit for staying over is more sex throughout the night and possibly in the AM. I guess I never really thought too hard about this part of game, as I have spent most of my time trying to get the bang. A few questions for you guys. In these cases, assume you want to see the chick again and keep her in a rotation. If you do not want to see her again, the answer is easy (and truly does not matter).
1. Do you cuddle/allow her to stay over if she wants to?
- If I do this, I will allow her to rest her head on my chest if she desires but do not push to cuddle if she does not make an effort. Would there be some benefit to denying her this?
2. If yes to question 1, do you have any specific "game" that you spit during this time period? I know post-sex is a time when you can usually have some pretty meaningful conversations with women since defense is down or nonexistent.
In the past, if I were to bang a chick I had no interest in, this is exactly what I would do. At this point, however, I try to (for the most part) only bang chicks that I like being around and do not mind spending time with. Because of this, I typically will allow them to stay over if they feel the desire. If they want to go home, I let them do that also. The main benefit for staying over is more sex throughout the night and possibly in the AM. I guess I never really thought too hard about this part of game, as I have spent most of my time trying to get the bang. A few questions for you guys. In these cases, assume you want to see the chick again and keep her in a rotation. If you do not want to see her again, the answer is easy (and truly does not matter).
1. Do you cuddle/allow her to stay over if she wants to?
- If I do this, I will allow her to rest her head on my chest if she desires but do not push to cuddle if she does not make an effort. Would there be some benefit to denying her this?
2. If yes to question 1, do you have any specific "game" that you spit during this time period? I know post-sex is a time when you can usually have some pretty meaningful conversations with women since defense is down or nonexistent.