[kirdiesel]

(11-13-2016 08:22 PM)Off The Reservation Wrote:  

(11-13-2016 08:04 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

I have chimed in your thread and followed it closely... I have been in the game in excess of 10 years and I can tell you the following.

From what I have gathered you are Asian and targeting white chicks. Interracial dating is HARD AS FUCK online. I am black and date white and I only pull garbage (well in my opinion) from online. With over 10 years in the game I still havent cracked this. However! I pull 10x more and better quality in person so I use that.

I know you are traveling so you have to run online, day game and night game (If i were you I would do the same thing)

When you get back home do the following.

1. Focus on ONE ASPECT of game at a time. Pick your poison... Be it day game or night game and FOCUS ONLY on that. Master ONE at a time. Everyone is not good at everything. I am the best at night game, dates, day game then online. See how I can tell you exactly where i stand and where? You need to be able to do that.

2. Read the books the guys have mentioned to you.

I know this might be over simplified but game is linear:

- Approach/Attraction/Conversation/Number Close/
- Text Game/Setup Date
- Date/More Attraction/Comfort
- Seduction
- Actual Sex

If you are fucking up at any time in this order.. you have reached a sticking point and you have to go back a step figure out what the fuck you did wrong and try and crack it. Try something else next time. Try to game and pay attention to what you are doing and see how girls react to different things.


A recent example of what happened to me:

Theres more details to this but long story short.....I was running night game on a girl I know from my social circle/facebook and I got her back to my place on Friday night and while in bed she wouldn't go past fingering or anything like that. We didn't have much kissing or anything like that. She ended up just telling me no and it wasn't a not right now kind of thing... just no.

Guess what? I thought about it and i realized I didn't run my seduction game properly in the club. The sexual tension wasn't high enough because I knew she was staying over and I thought it was a given that we would fuck. I got caught slipping. I didn't make her hot enough in the club and thus when we got back to my apartment she wasn't dying to rip my clothes off and fuck me. We were kissing in the club a little bit but I felt I could have done a better job. Fail on my part.

I diagnosed it by going back a step. You have to learn how to do this.

So if you aren't going forward its because you didn't hit something right.

Don't get frustrated and hang in there.... I wasn't doing so well here in Germany since i moved from the US a while back and this year I had a BREAKOUT year in terms of closes in quality. It gets better with practice. I'm over 10 years in this in total and I still have issues (albeit small) that need fixing.

^ superb post kirdiesel

Being able to look at yourself and your performance honestly is a rare skill.

You actually just answered for me a hotel room door failure I have been over analyzing and couldn't look past the "success" of very visibly bringing a 9 and only one of a few girls at a conference out of the hotel bar and upstairs at midnight in front of all the conference goers, of which I was not a part, having just seen the girl hanging with group and broke into a group of five guys and her to approach, which ended up in some bs kissing and heres my number / i have a 6 am flight. kirdiesel answered my question, i didnt make her hot enough to spend the night and not sleep vs just been seen leaving and then end it at the door.

Thanks bro. You HAVE to be able to look back at yourself (even with success), rate and analyze to make progress.

Not doing this leads to a loop (which destiny is stuck in) and you keep making the same mistakes over and over again and expecting a different result.

More examples of that game theory:

Last minute resistance = Attraction and Seduction but not enough comfort

Comfort + Attraction but no Seduction = Compliance from the woman but no sex

Theres alot more of these examples in the Books described above.