Quote: (11-13-2016 01:47 AM)Party Pooper Wrote:
Quote: (11-10-2016 02:27 PM)destiny Wrote:
I'm getting extremely frustrated with learning game and dating. I've been going out practically everyday doing daygame, nightgame, online, etc and gotten no where. Online is probably the worst. I paid for a photographer to get some professional photos done and it hasn't yielded much results. I've maybe gotten 1 more extra match on tinder since putting in the new profile pics. I get girls unmatching me soon after getting a match for no reason while others don't even answer my messages. I mean what the hell is the point of even matching with me then? Its really fucking depressing to be putting in all of that work and have nothing to show for you, yet you walk around the city and you see couples walking hand in hand or guys who you know just get laid through social circle without much work. The grind and pain threshold is just too much now.
I don't know what the hell to do anymore. I'm exhausted and pissed at the same time and my fucking friends are telling me I have no game and should just quit while the either go for fatties or get girls handed to them from social circle. This journey has been extremely humiliating and humbling at the same time. I don't think I've ever felt like this every before in my life. I just don't understand why I can't just get it! The secret to solving this part of my life that I've longed for a very very long time to fix and despite my efforts and continued efforts each day brushing off the bruise of the previous day's failure, I just can't do it. I just don't understand why I must go through this. I don't consider myself a terrible person but why am I always the one who must endure this pain while others have such easier lives?
Then do this. It still beats jerking off.
Nothing boosts your confidence more than fucking.
Having a steady supply of sex will erase most if not all needyness.
Then move on to hotter girls from there.
I can't do fatties. I remember one time I made out with a fattie at a club, I was nearly ready to throw up and felt like shit afterwards. If it was a normal average girl it probably would not have been a problem but only being able to get with a fatty just makes my self worth feel even worse.