You're 100x better than you were when you started.
Go focus on other things. Take down your online profile, its absolutely the worst way to meet the types of women you want to date. I would venture to say online dating is why you are in the funk you are in. Its easy to get unmotivated when you are waiting on that perfect girl you found online, to respond to your opener.
You need to now focus on yourself. Whats your life's purpose, your goal you are focused on 100%? Now that you dress better, act better, have higher confidence in general, you should use that increased momentum on something more rewarding. Go earn money, and bank that money. Go crush a goal that has been haunting you. Dont focus so much on woman. They will always be there.
I always say to people "use your fitness." In sports, having gone through this myself, when I see someone drop out of an event, or DNF, or fail to give a good performance, I tell them to go find another one ASAP. Lets say you train for a 10K, and in the race you have to drop out right away. You think you wasted all of that time and effort training for that event, and you are bummed. I tell people to get into another race ASAP. Dont let any time go by. Go run another race that next week, or as close to the event as possible. If you dont, you will get fat, and the entire training period will be a total waste of your life.
Dont make this a waste of your life. Use this momentum elsewhere. You know you are better now, expand that energy into other parts of your life. Get a raise, get a new job, start a business, grow a side business you have, get into new social circles, participate in charities in your town, go back to school, etc etc. Do SOMETHING. You will be dressing and acting better now anyways. You are that much more likely to score, when that hottie steps in your direction. And.. you are way more interesting.
My only tactical advice is ditch the online dating. Its an ego stroker for most women, and a lot of women just go on to check out the local dating scene. I would say a small percentage of women on these apps are datable, and even DTF. Especially if you live in a small town, I can imagine its extremely tough.
Go focus on other things. Take down your online profile, its absolutely the worst way to meet the types of women you want to date. I would venture to say online dating is why you are in the funk you are in. Its easy to get unmotivated when you are waiting on that perfect girl you found online, to respond to your opener.
You need to now focus on yourself. Whats your life's purpose, your goal you are focused on 100%? Now that you dress better, act better, have higher confidence in general, you should use that increased momentum on something more rewarding. Go earn money, and bank that money. Go crush a goal that has been haunting you. Dont focus so much on woman. They will always be there.
I always say to people "use your fitness." In sports, having gone through this myself, when I see someone drop out of an event, or DNF, or fail to give a good performance, I tell them to go find another one ASAP. Lets say you train for a 10K, and in the race you have to drop out right away. You think you wasted all of that time and effort training for that event, and you are bummed. I tell people to get into another race ASAP. Dont let any time go by. Go run another race that next week, or as close to the event as possible. If you dont, you will get fat, and the entire training period will be a total waste of your life.
Dont make this a waste of your life. Use this momentum elsewhere. You know you are better now, expand that energy into other parts of your life. Get a raise, get a new job, start a business, grow a side business you have, get into new social circles, participate in charities in your town, go back to school, etc etc. Do SOMETHING. You will be dressing and acting better now anyways. You are that much more likely to score, when that hottie steps in your direction. And.. you are way more interesting.
My only tactical advice is ditch the online dating. Its an ego stroker for most women, and a lot of women just go on to check out the local dating scene. I would say a small percentage of women on these apps are datable, and even DTF. Especially if you live in a small town, I can imagine its extremely tough.