Quote: (11-11-2016 09:55 AM)crispytaco Wrote:
Quote: (11-11-2016 06:14 AM)ksbms Wrote:
Also, give yourself a permission to fail. If you're on a date, don't try too hard (paradoxically, your getting too stressed about the outcome makes you fail) and just say to yourself 'fuck it, I'm gonna fuck it up but at least I'm going to have a good time. There's always another girl around the corner'.
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In addition, how is your personal life out of the "game" ? Do you have other goals? Successful men atracts women. Make girls see you don't care very much about them, because you have good life. Get a wingman, go out, have fun regardless the outcome.
Go travel, one of the members here had 1000 approaches with zero success, he went to another country and here is where he starting having success.
Keep working in your body, fashion, body language, etc. That shit never ends.
About the online game, you said you got professional help... I haven't seen your pics, but try not to have "no shirt" pics (too needy), put one outdoors having fun, and one petting a dog while smiling, or something like that.
Some parts of my life outside of game is ok, so not so much. I had a huge falling out with my best friend about a year ago. He threw away a 20+ year friendship because I showed a mutual friend a video about the migrant crisis right now. He got offended since he's from the middle east and then started taking jabs at me. But I think the real reason was that he saw that I was trying to improve my life and doing things he didn't dare do like approaching girls, trying to expand my social circle, traveling alone with him, etc. He was trying to keep me down. I remember one time when we drove past some nice houses by the lake and I told him I wanted to own one of those houses on day, he said you won't be able to own one in your lifetime. Anyways my old social circle was full of negative people who liked to put me down or be complacent so I got rid of them all.
My fitness is alright. I workout regularly although now I've stopped because I'm traveling and also because I still have a cold.
Finances need work and I was working on becoming location independent prior to going on my trip working on self publishing several books.
My personal goals at the moment were outside of game:
get to 10% bodyfat (currently around 14-15%)
build up a new social circle of friends who are value givers not takers and don't try to put me down every opportunity they have.
become location independent and make a full time salary with it
move out of toronto.
I'm currently in Krakow right now, just finished Riga so I am traveling. As for the online thing, I have one prof photo of me in a dress shirt and stuff, one of me with my dog and smiling, one of my boxing, a funny pic of me me eating a pinapple with the skin on while people are praising me, and one of my in paris posing near the lovre. I thought it was pretty well rounded.