My MO is usually direct nonverbals, indirect verbals for the first part of the interaction and I just let her comply with her body language.
If you get your look down and make her feel wanted and sexy with the way you interact with her, direct verbals are unnecessary.
You mentioned RSD so I'll try and approach your query with a bit more of a 'game approach'
- the way you look at her
- the way you invade her personal space and how she responds
- are you touching her and if so, are you doing it naturally? (never look at where you are touching her)
- can you build that sexual tension and keep it (push/pull)
- are you leading the interaction with your verbals and push/pulling with your non verbals?
a lot of the direct verbals that I will incorporate depend on
- isolation
- venue (is it a stiff place where I cannot really be in her personal space vs. a smoking area in a club/bar)
- how long ago i met her
- whats her vibe
- is she reciprocating/mirroring
- will it diffuse the sexual tension or build it
- can i control my urges
- how hot are you that you can get away without any shit sounding creepy (this is very context dependent especially if she is hotter or not in your mind than what she thinks she is vs if you or her are punching above your weight)
I went on a ramble but yeah. XXL also did a sweet lil analysis above, as usual.
You can always come out in the middle and tell her she smells good and pull in to her to get a better smell and gauge her interest based off that even but that depends on circumstance, if she smells nice of course, how long the interaction is going on for etc.
If you get your look down and make her feel wanted and sexy with the way you interact with her, direct verbals are unnecessary.
You mentioned RSD so I'll try and approach your query with a bit more of a 'game approach'
- the way you look at her
- the way you invade her personal space and how she responds
- are you touching her and if so, are you doing it naturally? (never look at where you are touching her)
- can you build that sexual tension and keep it (push/pull)
- are you leading the interaction with your verbals and push/pulling with your non verbals?
a lot of the direct verbals that I will incorporate depend on
- isolation
- venue (is it a stiff place where I cannot really be in her personal space vs. a smoking area in a club/bar)
- how long ago i met her
- whats her vibe
- is she reciprocating/mirroring
- will it diffuse the sexual tension or build it
- can i control my urges
- how hot are you that you can get away without any shit sounding creepy (this is very context dependent especially if she is hotter or not in your mind than what she thinks she is vs if you or her are punching above your weight)
I went on a ramble but yeah. XXL also did a sweet lil analysis above, as usual.
You can always come out in the middle and tell her she smells good and pull in to her to get a better smell and gauge her interest based off that even but that depends on circumstance, if she smells nice of course, how long the interaction is going on for etc.