OP: If a man tells you he relates to women better than men then I wouldn't use him as any kind of measuring stick. Sounds like a closet pickle smoker.
Anyway, by "beta orbiters" I assume you mean men in a social group that the female(s) do not want to fuck. From my personal observations, generally the answer is "no." That is, these incel men generally secretly (or not so secretly) would like to be with the women they are friendly with, but they either can't muster up the balls to tell them whats up, or they get friendzoned but keep it that way because they still like the girl and will allow themselves to be sort of "strung along" platonically by an unrequited lover just to be able to be around them and still feel like they are important to them.
I'm of the believe that these relationships are beneficial for women by highly detrimental for men for the most part.
Anyway, by "beta orbiters" I assume you mean men in a social group that the female(s) do not want to fuck. From my personal observations, generally the answer is "no." That is, these incel men generally secretly (or not so secretly) would like to be with the women they are friendly with, but they either can't muster up the balls to tell them whats up, or they get friendzoned but keep it that way because they still like the girl and will allow themselves to be sort of "strung along" platonically by an unrequited lover just to be able to be around them and still feel like they are important to them.
I'm of the believe that these relationships are beneficial for women by highly detrimental for men for the most part.