In my experience if a girl bangs on the first date she has usually been with a lot of guys. Does this mean she is unsuitable for a long term relationship? Well, I am into more of an open relationship model so maybe, maybe not. For me a women's level of slutiness is just one factor that plays into her suitability for a non-monogamous LTR. I won't take a girl seriously who is actively/currently banging a bunch of other dudes, but other factors like attractiveness, compatibility, honesty and loyalty are equally as important as a women's past level of slutiness.
Very few of my mini LTRs and LTRs have come from first night lays, they usually come from second night lays. In my experience, 90% of the time, first night lays are one night stands (except in the Philippines). 90% of the time when I don't get the lay on the 2nd night I won't don't get it at all. So for a LTR in the west, I would say a second night lay is just right.
Very few of my mini LTRs and LTRs have come from first night lays, they usually come from second night lays. In my experience, 90% of the time, first night lays are one night stands (except in the Philippines). 90% of the time when I don't get the lay on the 2nd night I won't don't get it at all. So for a LTR in the west, I would say a second night lay is just right.