How have the guys who are in their 40's and 50's changed up their game plan?
01-09-2012, 12:29 PMQuote: (01-08-2012 12:55 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:
Quote: (01-08-2012 12:15 PM)pitt Wrote:
Iknowexactly so you dont drive where you at? I am starting to believe i need less and less money or maybe if you were balling in eastern europe as an older man, your numbers in terms of bangs would be higher (Imagine driving an expensive car there, having a luxury flat/home, etc). I am shocked that you are living with such a low budget in eastern europe at your age.
My goal: Cheat the POD, because The Giant Hand makes no allowances.
No, I don't drive. I am NOT balling, it would be nice to have more money, but I'm not staying in the POD more years to get it --wasting my life.
Please don't take the following as any kind of indictment of more regular people, I'm a nut and a snob and just telling you really how I tick.
First off I'm not into numbers of bangs, my neurology is such that I pair bond easily, and prefer to have long-term relationships. ( For more info on the neurochemical anatomy of reward-dependence and thrill-seeking see Cloninger, a personality researcher.) I am using game not to get more women, but to be in control in the relationships i have and get hotter women-- the only real way to have control is to always have another chick waiting, and have your current bitch know it.
I'm an eccentric, intellectual snob and look down on tacky shit like impressing girls with cars, and I look down on girls who are impressed by cars. I've always excelled at school, and I also am completely lacking in common sense and business sense.
It would be hard to duplicate what I do- I come off in some ways as pretty helpless actually. Women have an instinct to nurture, as well a somewhat conflicting instinct to pursue the alpha. I call this "lapdog game." The technique is to be really nice and sort of childlike towards her-- but she knows that a "child" is also helpless and friendly to other women as well-- setting up an competition in her mind.
One of things I like about Slavs is that --imagine this--they respect education as something that makes you interesting to hang out with.
Let's say I sold widgets my whole life, saved up enough for the baller pad, the 12 cylinder Mercedes, and I get here to Eastern Europe.
After I drive the type of dumb bitch that's impressed by this home, what do we do? Put a stupid Hollywood movie on and talk about--widgets?
I've instead developed my INNER WORLD so that I am interesting in a way other than as a supplier of junk.
I just had a talk today with a young woman who educated me on the differences between Gothic, Renaissance, Classical, and Modern architecture. THAT got me hot. I got her number. THAT ( and the fact that chicks aren't fat.) is why I love EE.
Back to earlier life priorities--while Johnny MBA was topping up his stock portfolio, (what was in his brain? widgetsdollarswidgetsdollars...) I was earning the equivalent of 3 college degrees, writing songs and screenplays. I wouldn't advocate this type of life unless you are equally eccentric and have some talent and drive.
The whole siren-song trap of the consumerist West is "...work a little more, you're almost good enough, if you just have a little more money you can be OK..." and being over 50 I've felt my health decline enough to realize that's the model of Capitalism-- use you up while you struggle to "make good", then spit you out when you're too worn out to enjoy life.
I worked until I had an independent income so I could live where hot chicks are. Then I said FUCK YOU POD. FUCK YOU 3X, CUBICLE-POD-DEATHCELL-TOMB. I do NOTHING for POD anymore.
I also spent my 20's playing the guitar FTW and having fun then too. So, by the time I go wide on a cliffside road's bend on the Amalfi coast at 77 years old, the POD will only have had me for about 20 years out of my whole life. And as the sea rushes towards me, I'll make sure to say one last FU again to the POD.
The whole idea is to cheat the POD as much as you can, because you can't cheat The Giant Hand, it gets everyone.
Brilliant. Just brilliant! This is what the Dos Equis man would write.