1) try to get her to talk about herself, and when you are talking about yourself, add a couple of pretty intimate details, like a "I don't usually talk about this at a sangria bar, but..."
2) Imagine a conversation constructed out of turn-based dialogue, with each block of commentary formulated using three subparts: response, statement, question.
Touch on her points to demonstrate that you are listening. Then, add some comments of your own. Potentially change the subject, or revert to a prior subject from earlier in the conversation. Finally, if she hasn't already interrupted or responded to things you have said, ask a question or state an open ended thought to spur a response.
You can talk for hours like this, if you are smooth about it.
2) Imagine a conversation constructed out of turn-based dialogue, with each block of commentary formulated using three subparts: response, statement, question.
Touch on her points to demonstrate that you are listening. Then, add some comments of your own. Potentially change the subject, or revert to a prior subject from earlier in the conversation. Finally, if she hasn't already interrupted or responded to things you have said, ask a question or state an open ended thought to spur a response.
You can talk for hours like this, if you are smooth about it.