Those of us who know the night life see you hitting the same obstacles and sometimes coming up with the same initial solutions.
If you want to pull in a loud dance club, you offer value by dancing, or at least nonverbal value. That means to pull chicks, you'll have to develop new skills. That should be exciting, but I don't get that vibe from guys.
If there are guys in the group, you talk to the guys first. So you have to go indirect. Figure out the relationships and logistics, show value, attract the target, let her choose you, not rush in and focus on her.
It's not like all of this stuff hasn't already been written down and isn't a quick Google search away. I rarely see an issue today that wasn't solved in multiple ways in the early 00's.
I see so many newbies trying to reinvent the wheel
WIA
If you want to pull in a loud dance club, you offer value by dancing, or at least nonverbal value. That means to pull chicks, you'll have to develop new skills. That should be exciting, but I don't get that vibe from guys.
If there are guys in the group, you talk to the guys first. So you have to go indirect. Figure out the relationships and logistics, show value, attract the target, let her choose you, not rush in and focus on her.
It's not like all of this stuff hasn't already been written down and isn't a quick Google search away. I rarely see an issue today that wasn't solved in multiple ways in the early 00's.
I see so many newbies trying to reinvent the wheel
WIA