1) never say anything crucial until you have her full attention
2) ruthlessly edit what you say to make it clear and short
3) speak loud and slow
So she doesn't catch your opener
Sometimes girls do this because they're fucking with you.
Sometimes they're interested in hearing what you have to say
Other times, they're interested in You.
Playfully assume the last option.
"Omg you're so in love with all of this (meaning your looks) that you're not even paying attention to what I said"
"I have been working out, but stop objectifying me! .."
Why do this?
- So you can come back to your witty stuff later
- inject necessary man to woman vibe
- start the banter that a couple naturally has
- novelty and emotional roller coaster.
- she can give and take in this situation, because she's played this game before. You're giving her the opportunity to take part in her own seduction.
When you monologue like so many new players, all she can do is listen...and get bored before the point/punchline.
Real rap, she might not want you, but she definitely wants to interact, to flex, to show her stuff - those things make her feel good. You can see this because the body language opens up.
Give her a chance to do so.
WIA
2) ruthlessly edit what you say to make it clear and short
3) speak loud and slow
So she doesn't catch your opener
Sometimes girls do this because they're fucking with you.
Sometimes they're interested in hearing what you have to say
Other times, they're interested in You.
Playfully assume the last option.
"Omg you're so in love with all of this (meaning your looks) that you're not even paying attention to what I said"
"I have been working out, but stop objectifying me! .."
Why do this?
- So you can come back to your witty stuff later
- inject necessary man to woman vibe
- start the banter that a couple naturally has
- novelty and emotional roller coaster.
- she can give and take in this situation, because she's played this game before. You're giving her the opportunity to take part in her own seduction.
When you monologue like so many new players, all she can do is listen...and get bored before the point/punchline.
Real rap, she might not want you, but she definitely wants to interact, to flex, to show her stuff - those things make her feel good. You can see this because the body language opens up.
Give her a chance to do so.
WIA