Quote: (01-31-2016 10:58 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Diagnostic for game?
1) Step 1
You see a cute girl standing by herself
What do you do next
- as you stand there Asses the situation, why is she standing there? Is she waiting for a bus? Is she waiting for a friend?
- as you walk over - what do you do Already have an opener in my mind that usually relates to her situation. Ie, she's waiting for the bus "That bus is always late"
- first words - what do you say Whatever relates to the situation, sometimes I just say hi
- her first negative reaction - what do you say and do Watch her body language, and adjust my game accordingly, this is a tough question. It all depends on the sitatuon and context.
- her first positive reaction... - what do you say and do Continue with the subject that she responded positively to, if she goes "Omg I know this bus is never on time" I might say "Maybe its you no the bus with a smirk"
And how do you take that good reaction and get her into bed that very night? Suggest meeting up later for drinks, then lets say the texting went fine, I'd invite her to a local bar with good sexy lighting, share some stories of mine that generally get good reactions from girls, if we have one of those moment where she goes "OMG I had the same thing happen to me" I'd grab her wrist and go "No way". Most of my game is based on stories of mine, and sharing experiences. On our way back to my car and she said something kinda sassy I might slap her ass or something, I find girls react really well to a light slap on the ass. We might do some people watching in the bar and try to guess who's on a tinder date.
From there, I'd take her to go play pool at a local pool hall, teaser her about her lack of pool skills or if she's really good I'd say she's a sandbagger and all she wanted was to run table on me for money. I'd touch her during pool and maybe slap her ass as she's going for a shot to make her fuck it up.
From there I'd take her to this cool waterfall near my place that not many people know about, it's really picturesque and I'll grab her and start kissing her, pushing her up against my car or a tree. Then I'd go back to my place for a movie and from there I'd simply make her a drink, chat a little, go for another makeout, take her to my room to show her some of my photography and bring her to my bed.
That's my general date strategy, before I would invite them right to my place but that only worked on a few occasions with some less than ideal girls.
2) Step 2
It's Friday Night, 6 pm. School/Work is over.
You're going to go out and find some ass.
In your own words, tell me what you do. I work twelve hour shifts so generally when I get home I sleep
@ 6:30 -sleep-
@ 7:00 -sleep
@ 8:00 -sleep-
@ 830 -wake up-
@ 9:00 pm -look for events or things going on that night, listen to some music to pump up my state, might watch a few clips of movies I enjoy
@10 Hit the venue, grab a drink, chill
@ 11 Talk to some of the people that are close to me, guy or girl
@ 12 See if any girls notice me, if they do I'll approach
@1 am Assuming I've approached a girl and there's no friends and conversation is smooth, I'd invite her to grab a drink with me at another bar
@2 am After the drink at the bar, I'd suggest going back to my place and I'll show her some of my photography or w.e bait I have that she would be interested in.
@ 3 am Hopefully in bed with her
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I know I took along time to respond, I took at hiatus from game and worked on my social skills for the better half of this year.