Is it a legit excuse for a guy to blame his environment for his lack of success?
01-01-2012, 06:06 PM
Conneray, sounds like your cuz just needs some fine tuning man, tell him not to sweat it too bad. Everyone gets down on themselves about their physical appearance, we're all insecure in some ways, its normal!
Try to convince him to move away from home to a cooler city with better women, why don't you get him to move to where you're from? Does he have the money to travel? Convince him to distance himself from his parents, physically and emotionally, clinging to mommy's apron strings won't help any young man.
Sometimes a major change in environment is all a guy really needs, as I said in other posts, I spend a lot of time in a god forsaken shit hole of a town called Fort McMurray, Canada. That place is a very difficult city to live in for me because I'm used to living in cities with culture, vibrant nightlife and fine women (theres some hotties in the Mac for sure, but women literally are a minority there, probably 60/40). I need to get the fuck out once in awhile, preferably to a place thats as different than there as possible, Jamaica worked for me!
Also, being "different", from somewhere else can score you major points. When I'm rapping to women in Florida, one of the first things they say is "wheres your accent from?", instant ice breaker and something to talk about! Your cousin would do well in Canada with the Georgia accent dude!
Try to convince him to move away from home to a cooler city with better women, why don't you get him to move to where you're from? Does he have the money to travel? Convince him to distance himself from his parents, physically and emotionally, clinging to mommy's apron strings won't help any young man.
Sometimes a major change in environment is all a guy really needs, as I said in other posts, I spend a lot of time in a god forsaken shit hole of a town called Fort McMurray, Canada. That place is a very difficult city to live in for me because I'm used to living in cities with culture, vibrant nightlife and fine women (theres some hotties in the Mac for sure, but women literally are a minority there, probably 60/40). I need to get the fuck out once in awhile, preferably to a place thats as different than there as possible, Jamaica worked for me!
Also, being "different", from somewhere else can score you major points. When I'm rapping to women in Florida, one of the first things they say is "wheres your accent from?", instant ice breaker and something to talk about! Your cousin would do well in Canada with the Georgia accent dude!