[Mr.GM]

(01-01-2012 05:12 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(01-01-2012 01:27 AM)MrIntermediate Wrote:  

I come from Southern California so my viewpoint may be a bit different.

For getting laid, Western Europe is 10x easier for a non-White male whether he be Asian or Brown or Black or Latin. I slept with 4 girls in a 2 week or so period along with enjoying the trip with my friends. This was in France.

Such an occurrence never happened to me in the US. Now when people think Southern Cal they think people here are ahead of the curve, boy such cannot be farther from the truth. I do notice I have little to no problems here being a Brown guy but I have dated girls who have turned down my Asian friends because my Asian friends were Asian. Yet these same Asian friends of mines were getting laid left to right in Sweden (they in fact did a lot better than I did).

In Southern Cal I have dated decent looking White women and THAT is what got me stares in some places. One guy at a restaurant yelled out "no good White men around!?". My Black friends have said the same thing about how when a White girl introduced them to her parents, all hell broke loose.

As for moving up economically and w/e, well ya the US wins but since we are talking about getting laid and stuff, here is how it works in the US from what I see it:

When a White man puts his finger on a woman of any race, the woman receives compliments and the White guy rarely receives any hate. When a non-White man dates an attractive White woman, people tend to stare and talk about it a lot.

Me?

I don't give a f*ck. I am gonna date the finest Black, Latin, Brunette, Redhead, Blonde, Asian, and mixed women every chance I get. Haters can suck it. But problem is there are gonna be a lot of haters, thank god it is becoming more and more common to see Latino dudes, Asian dudes, and Black dudes in So Cali rail fine looking White women, people have slowly started to see it as a norm.

The funny thing I've noticed is that during the times I'm walking around with an attractive white woman, it's Latinos who stare the hardest. In fact they just stare like crazy anytime I'm with any woman that's light skinned. I once was out with a light skinned Brazilian woman from the south of Brazil and Latinos were gazing. If the girl is blond, man do they really fucking stare. Sometimes I don't know if they're being haters or if they are just curious because they are interested in dating light skinned women themselves(as is common in Latin America) and it's just a naive curiosity to see a dark black man like me walking with a light skinned woman. I've also gotten some haters who were brothas. Making comments like "dayuuuum" out loud as we walked by. I'm not about to go getting in a fight over it, but it's just extra bullshit you have to put up with if I want to chill with any woman that's not black.

And also, when I see a black man walking with a fat ass ugly white/latin woman, I don't see ANYBODY staring at them. So it's totally a thing of thinking black men are not worthy of dating attractive white or Latin women. And just being haters.

(01-01-2012 02:40 PM)Conneray Wrote:  

I have been fortunate enough to be raised in Southern California, I consider it a true blessing. Beautiful women here are in abundance and with decent game and decent looks, you can pull. There is so much to do here, so much to keep me healthy, and overall SO MUCH to keep me occupied and not waste too much time online.

For the past 2 weeks or so I went to go visit my cousin in Georgia. He does not live in Atlanta, in fact he lives in a small city there, where there isn't much to do at all. Saw the place and I have to say it is a mess, here is what I noticed:

1. Tons and tons and tons of Whales, seriously, they don't joke about the south having a high obesity rate.
2. Not much to do, in my 2 weeks there I gained about 8 lbs. In So cal I could easily burn it off because of the active lifestyle here, in GA? way harder! Place was pretty poor.
3. Not much variety, if you like Latinas or Asian girls say for instance, in most cases you are screwed, even though there are some there, they are in small numbers, at least outside of Atlanta.
4. Bad bad bad weather. One day it was 80 degrees, the next day it was like 50 degrees in the place, had me saying "wtf".


Now I understand my cousin's place is not the most desirable but here is the thing.

He is 19, hasn't kissed a girl before, has never f*cked before, has a bad sense of style, wears glasses with thick frames, isn't fat or overweight but isn't fit and athletic either, has never been on a date before, the school he went to he says had like 200 kids there or so.

Personally, even though I was fortunate enough to be raised in Southern California, I think my cousin is just whining. I mean it isn't like he is living in the middle east or anything.

Yes he will have to work harder to get laid and stuff, but is it a legit or fair excuse for a guy to blame his environment on his lack of success with women or just lack of success in general (diet, fitness, etc)?

Off course you can have an easy ride or a bumpy one, depending on the conditions of the environment that you live in.
But its always up to you to make the best that you can.It's clear to me that your cousin is not giving it all to improve his results.