Is it a legit excuse for a guy to blame his environment for his lack of success?
01-01-2012, 02:40 PM
I have been fortunate enough to be raised in Southern California, I consider it a true blessing. Beautiful women here are in abundance and with decent game and decent looks, you can pull. There is so much to do here, so much to keep me healthy, and overall SO MUCH to keep me occupied and not waste too much time online.
For the past 2 weeks or so I went to go visit my cousin in Georgia. He does not live in Atlanta, in fact he lives in a small city there, where there isn't much to do at all. Saw the place and I have to say it is a mess, here is what I noticed:
1. Tons and tons and tons of Whales, seriously, they don't joke about the south having a high obesity rate.
2. Not much to do, in my 2 weeks there I gained about 8 lbs. In So cal I could easily burn it off because of the active lifestyle here, in GA? way harder! Place was pretty poor.
3. Not much variety, if you like Latinas or Asian girls say for instance, in most cases you are screwed, even though there are some there, they are in small numbers, at least outside of Atlanta.
4. Bad bad bad weather. One day it was 80 degrees, the next day it was like 50 degrees in the place, had me saying "wtf".
Now I understand my cousin's place is not the most desirable but here is the thing.
He is 19, hasn't kissed a girl before, has never f*cked before, has a bad sense of style, wears glasses with thick frames, isn't fat or overweight but isn't fit and athletic either, has never been on a date before, the school he went to he says had like 200 kids there or so.
Personally, even though I was fortunate enough to be raised in Southern California, I think my cousin is just whining. I mean it isn't like he is living in the middle east or anything.
Yes he will have to work harder to get laid and stuff, but is it a legit or fair excuse for a guy to blame his environment on his lack of success with women or just lack of success in general (diet, fitness, etc)?
For the past 2 weeks or so I went to go visit my cousin in Georgia. He does not live in Atlanta, in fact he lives in a small city there, where there isn't much to do at all. Saw the place and I have to say it is a mess, here is what I noticed:
1. Tons and tons and tons of Whales, seriously, they don't joke about the south having a high obesity rate.
2. Not much to do, in my 2 weeks there I gained about 8 lbs. In So cal I could easily burn it off because of the active lifestyle here, in GA? way harder! Place was pretty poor.
3. Not much variety, if you like Latinas or Asian girls say for instance, in most cases you are screwed, even though there are some there, they are in small numbers, at least outside of Atlanta.
4. Bad bad bad weather. One day it was 80 degrees, the next day it was like 50 degrees in the place, had me saying "wtf".
Now I understand my cousin's place is not the most desirable but here is the thing.
He is 19, hasn't kissed a girl before, has never f*cked before, has a bad sense of style, wears glasses with thick frames, isn't fat or overweight but isn't fit and athletic either, has never been on a date before, the school he went to he says had like 200 kids there or so.
Personally, even though I was fortunate enough to be raised in Southern California, I think my cousin is just whining. I mean it isn't like he is living in the middle east or anything.
Yes he will have to work harder to get laid and stuff, but is it a legit or fair excuse for a guy to blame his environment on his lack of success with women or just lack of success in general (diet, fitness, etc)?