Quote: (07-29-2016 04:36 AM)Easy_C Wrote:
Don't. Simply do not try to meet women by finding the right sports and hobbies. Do whatever the hell you actually like. One problem here (not the main problem) is that it is patently, utterly obvious when someone is at a group simply because they're trying to (as B&B would say) "score with some hot chicks".
That you are even asking this question shows a critical flaw in your mentality. It is the class Shark Tank contestant mistake: It doesn't really matter how great your product is if you are trying to sell to a market that's not looking. You are asking "Where can I meet women"? When you SHOULD be asking is "where will women go when they are trying to meet guys like me?". That will give you a very different list....although to be fair there is some potential overlap. There are no small number of women that hang out at the gym looking for the dudes that exercise there but given that I'm busy working out and the numbers aren't that great I wouldn't try that. Possible exception for college gyms.
So where do they meet guys? Primarily online and in places where alcohol is served of course. Other kinds of girls may look at college(in some areas a substantial portion of women are there for the Mrs. degree), start attending local church groups or meetings (like theology on tap), volunteer orgs etc.
A huge one is dancing classes and groups. A lot of women go to those things trying to meet guys and the ones that hunt for guys that way have, in my experience, tended to be somewhat more feminine than the ones online or at clubs.
Interesting posts, thanks people.
I wouldn't want cross fit for women, because I don't get how women would want to do strength training.
Dancing classes, I know some swear by it. But I've heard some pretty beta males try it simply because they have no game. Now to me, salsa and and all that sounds fine for Cuba, Costa Rica and the like, but in Britain, I'm not the dancing type.
Women go to find guys where there's lots of guys. So I'm not sure thats always a great place for us. For instance, why go to a place that has 3 quality guys for 1 piglike women. But yes, I get the point.
Bartending is probably great for a guy in his 20s. But I'm 30s now. If I was seen working in a bar that wasn't my own, local businesspeople might say "what the fuck is HE doing there". As a bouncer I can say "oh its a hobby, because of my martial arts".
OK mixed sports is a good one, but again. I like girls who like ballet and dancing and shit. I myself like martial arts, football. And would rather be dead than take up ballet!! So not a great overlap there hahahaha!
Has anyone here tried creative hobbies? I'm thinking erotic photography, theatre production, short film-making, even songwriting? I've got a genuine interest in these things. And I think they'd compliment the "man's world" businesses that I'm occupied in the rest of the time.