Quote: (07-25-2016 04:16 PM)XXL Wrote:
It's more about knowing that you have what it takes to meet and get another girl. If you don't know that yet or you have no first hand experience of doing that then it's nothing but an enthusiasm and hope.
I agree. I'm not in a position to always have a girl or two "on call", I've been fortunate to be in that position sometimes, but for me so far at least it's been unsustainable 24/7/365.
But I've had enough successes to know that whatever happens, if I just keep going out from time to time, throwing out a few messages on online dating sites, and generally doing my thing, another will come along. It might not happen tomorrow, or even this week, but it's not like it's gonna be years.
When you have the mentality, the uncertainty actually feels more like an adventure than a burdensome anxiety. Who knows where the road will lead, or what the tide will bring in?