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The "mentality" part of abundance mentality can only take you so far. You must have real options. This is true not just with women but everything in life. If you're in a "hot" field and can easily find another job, you are able to quit at the drop of the hat. If you've been trying tosell your house and this is the first offer in 6 months, you're in a different position than if you have multiple offers a week after it's on the market.