Quote: (07-22-2016 06:59 PM)Iso Wrote:
Quote: (07-19-2016 07:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
That might mean they're monitoring her body language
1) she's not feeling you, so they rescue her
2) she's feeling you too much, and they're saving her from herself
So if you got the one chick in conversation, go for the lock in to dissuade guys, and move for the bounce to eat or something as soon as you get past the attraction stage
WIA
I went out last night with my wingman. We were talking with a 2 set of girls for about 15 minutes. It was going well,then 1 of the girls suggested to go the bar for a drink. They went and that killed the approach. Next time we saw them, they were chatting with 2 random dudes. Whats your approach in that situation when they go to the bar or the bathroom. Follow them there? Wait in the same spot hoping they come back? Go buy the drink for them?
None of those, all of them are loose:loose situations. They used the bar excuse to get rid of you guys.
Its one of those moments when you have to think later "what have I done wrong?, what can I do better next time? In what aspect of myself shall I improve?" because attraction and comfort where not there.
Then, just accept defeat and move on to the next set, no shame, that's life, sometimes you win, sometimes you loose. Not every set is worth to waste 15 minutes of your night out. Start to figure out which ones are worth of it.