Let's deal with form and then with substance:
- posting from mobile is tough. Use the "Enter" key to separate lines, and keep it short.
- Getting to the point is crucial, on mobile or on a computer.
Now substance:
- She was probably "establishing" or checking boundaries.
- I'll take her on her word that "she likes to dance, and that she will dance with other guys etc". If she likes to dance she can dance with you or with her friends. Dancing with other guys is a red flag.
- Not texting an LTR is not a good idea. On an LTR one should text on a regular basis to keep yourself in her mind. If you went abroad, you should have told her in advance that you will text her.
Suggestions:
1. Do not chase. Go ghost for a few days. Let her "come to you".
2. Once back, ignore the subject until she brings it up. Then explain what you require her to do and how to act. If she agrees and follows - good. She may ask for "different arrangement" (i.e. texting more - OK, going out with other people - NOT OK).
3. Be ready to walk out. If you are not getting what you want (in terms of her behaviour), don't stay.
4. Find out, if you can, what she did in your absence. Use social media, ask her friends (casually).
5. If you find out she was cheating - dump her. If not - complement her for a good behaviour (reinforcement is a good thing in relationship).
- posting from mobile is tough. Use the "Enter" key to separate lines, and keep it short.
- Getting to the point is crucial, on mobile or on a computer.
Now substance:
- She was probably "establishing" or checking boundaries.
- I'll take her on her word that "she likes to dance, and that she will dance with other guys etc". If she likes to dance she can dance with you or with her friends. Dancing with other guys is a red flag.
- Not texting an LTR is not a good idea. On an LTR one should text on a regular basis to keep yourself in her mind. If you went abroad, you should have told her in advance that you will text her.
Suggestions:
1. Do not chase. Go ghost for a few days. Let her "come to you".
2. Once back, ignore the subject until she brings it up. Then explain what you require her to do and how to act. If she agrees and follows - good. She may ask for "different arrangement" (i.e. texting more - OK, going out with other people - NOT OK).
3. Be ready to walk out. If you are not getting what you want (in terms of her behaviour), don't stay.
4. Find out, if you can, what she did in your absence. Use social media, ask her friends (casually).
5. If you find out she was cheating - dump her. If not - complement her for a good behaviour (reinforcement is a good thing in relationship).
"I love a fulfilling and sexual relationship. That is why I make the effort to have many of those" - TheMaleBrain
"Now you see that evil will always triumph because good is dumb." - Spaceballs
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