You need to deal with your anxiety as its probably a big contributor to your hangups.
I used to suffer from anxiety and also suffered from bouncing when girls were keen. It was just too much for me in certain circumstances and I got overwhelmed.
Once I got my anxiety under control, this problem went away. Eye contact - no problem, approach anxiety - almost disappeared, Pulling the trigger when girls were keen - Easy as pie.
I also felt more emotionally connected to girls which made it easy to moderate my game to suit the girl. The girls were automatically more comfortable because I was more comfortable.
I spent years in clubs learning game and nothing helped me as much as fixing my anxiety.
TLDR; Try to get to the bottom of why you suffer anxiety, and particularly consider if it comes from a physical source. Mine came from sleep apnea, but it could be allergies (food or otherwise), alcohol (even on the night you're drinking), drugs, or a myriad of gut irritations (ala IBS).
I used to suffer from anxiety and also suffered from bouncing when girls were keen. It was just too much for me in certain circumstances and I got overwhelmed.
Once I got my anxiety under control, this problem went away. Eye contact - no problem, approach anxiety - almost disappeared, Pulling the trigger when girls were keen - Easy as pie.
I also felt more emotionally connected to girls which made it easy to moderate my game to suit the girl. The girls were automatically more comfortable because I was more comfortable.
I spent years in clubs learning game and nothing helped me as much as fixing my anxiety.
TLDR; Try to get to the bottom of why you suffer anxiety, and particularly consider if it comes from a physical source. Mine came from sleep apnea, but it could be allergies (food or otherwise), alcohol (even on the night you're drinking), drugs, or a myriad of gut irritations (ala IBS).