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(12-24-2011 02:27 PM)Scarlet_Terror Wrote:  

I will cock block if a guy is trying to swoop on my date or gf. My male friends are terrible with women, but have enough sense not to backstab or sabotage. I've had a few PUAs try to hit on my friends and one time even my GF. My ugly female friends need dick so I won't CB then.

Here's one example, at a lounge with my (then) gf and guy friend.

PUA: Hey man, what's up? I like your vibe. You seem like a cool dude.
Me: Uh, thanks.
PUA: Yeah man, you seem really chill. Are you from around here?
Me: Actually, I..
PUA: Be honest. That girl sitting next to you...you're not dating her, are you?
Me: I am.
PUA: You don't need to lie man, I totally understand the protective guy friend bit. But I'm a cool guy, you should let me talk to her for a sec.
Me: I'm not lying. She's my girlfriend.
PUA: With you, seriously? (My girlfriend was hot, but I'm a good looking guy. His remark started to piss me off now).
Me: Yeah.
PUA: (yelling at my friend who's on the other side of the table) Yo, is this guy really dating this girl?
Friend: Yup.
PUA: (silence)
Me: "Dude, talk to her all want." (at this point I scoot over and let him sit next to her, I don't give a shit. He tries to hit on her for a few minutes before he realizes it's going nowhere).

He goes back to his table about 15 feet away and then I realize he's with a "student" (old man) and I hear him say "that approach didn't go well, cockblocks. I'll show you another set in a second."

A few seconds later he goes over to this cute black chick and starts giving her a lap dance. The bar loves it. He then takes off his shirt and starts twirling it like a cowboy. The girl seems to love it, but the bouncers come over and tell him he's going to have to leave if he doesn't get clothed. He and his student leave shortly thereafter).

I feel no shame in admitting I cock block against men I don't know if it's my turf. If I don't like the girl (or I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me), I won't CB.

If a man is trying to talk to your girl, right in front of you, that isn't cockblocking. That's a man trying to disrespect you (and this guy was, even though it was just a demonstration for others), and he needed to get shut down. You showed great restraint. Under different circumstances, that could have gotten much uglier.