Have a girl I'm banging. Because she lives about 1.5 hours away, I only see her when she's in town, but yesterday I was bored and horny so I asked her if she wanted to come over.
She says "maybe" and around 8pm she texts me and says she will come over.
Around 10pm she arrives. I open the door and she has a fresh herpe on the side of her mouth.
I mentioned it straight away and she just says, oh yea, it's already been there for 3 days so should be clearing up soon. I was bemused by it all and wanted to tell her to go home, but didn't have the heart to send her right back on another 1.5 hour train ride home in the middle of the night. So I just told her we can hang out and I'm not kissing her. We watched a movie, and I still ended up banging her after (couldn't resist) but was paranoid af about her kissing me.
I am living in Europe right now and I've actually noticed this a lot with Europeans. Whenever they have cold sores (which seem more common here) they can't care less and just continue going to the club, playing drinking games and sharing cups and hooking up with people. Nobody cares. It's like the South Park episode where the guys go and get that dirty hooker to lick all the cups in the neighbourhood so everyone gets herpes. Back home most peeps I know make an effort to stay low key and some will take sick days and stay home until they've healed. Not saying you have to kill yourself, but it's a highly contagious virus that causes oozing blisters on your mouth (and maybe your cock). Is it not just basic courtesy to hang low for 3 days until you've healed? Would you invite a chick over for a booty call if you had open cold sores on your mouth? Seems fucking weird to me.
She says "maybe" and around 8pm she texts me and says she will come over.
Around 10pm she arrives. I open the door and she has a fresh herpe on the side of her mouth.
I mentioned it straight away and she just says, oh yea, it's already been there for 3 days so should be clearing up soon. I was bemused by it all and wanted to tell her to go home, but didn't have the heart to send her right back on another 1.5 hour train ride home in the middle of the night. So I just told her we can hang out and I'm not kissing her. We watched a movie, and I still ended up banging her after (couldn't resist) but was paranoid af about her kissing me.
I am living in Europe right now and I've actually noticed this a lot with Europeans. Whenever they have cold sores (which seem more common here) they can't care less and just continue going to the club, playing drinking games and sharing cups and hooking up with people. Nobody cares. It's like the South Park episode where the guys go and get that dirty hooker to lick all the cups in the neighbourhood so everyone gets herpes. Back home most peeps I know make an effort to stay low key and some will take sick days and stay home until they've healed. Not saying you have to kill yourself, but it's a highly contagious virus that causes oozing blisters on your mouth (and maybe your cock). Is it not just basic courtesy to hang low for 3 days until you've healed? Would you invite a chick over for a booty call if you had open cold sores on your mouth? Seems fucking weird to me.