Quote: (12-20-2011 12:41 AM)Breeze Wrote:
I am banging this girl who lives on the other side of the country. She flys into the city once a month and we hook up. Lately she has been nagging me to do relationship type things (NYE, X-mas, why don't I call/txt more) etc...I have been very clear that I do not want a long distance relationship. VERY CLEAR. Do I need to cut off all contact? Anyone with this experience? What do you think the best way to handle this is?
Breeze
How do you feel about HER? Do you enjoy the time you spend with her once a month? Is an occasional call, text or night out more than you're willing to do to keep this thing rolling? What she's looking for aren't necessarily relationship-like things, since you're across the country from each other. Even fuck buddies get an occasional call or text - those are minimal effort. If what she's asking for really feels like too much, cut her off. But this sounds like a good set up that you could keep going with very minimal effort.
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