You need to change your mind about the inevitability of the environment.
If you're the man, she will take whatever role you offer her. In practice that means giving her an emotional rollercoaster that no other guy is capable of when you're not in the sack, and wild passionate sex when you are.
That might start with you telling her what's up when you see her in person.
- I'm really digging our vibe
- What are you trying to get out of this?
- Cause I can see where this is heading
- I'm in a weird place right now.
- This is what I'm offering
- If that's not what you want, tell me
If she wants more, get up and leave.
If she's cool, then you set the rules.
After rules are set, then you stick to them.
Traditionally guys do this after the first bang. But they set themselves up as players to begin with.
In the future, it's always better to start with the good time vibe even if you want a relationship. She has to win you over.
Keep in mind, I don't know the exact situation. Just understand the principles involved.
WIA
If you're the man, she will take whatever role you offer her. In practice that means giving her an emotional rollercoaster that no other guy is capable of when you're not in the sack, and wild passionate sex when you are.
That might start with you telling her what's up when you see her in person.
- I'm really digging our vibe
- What are you trying to get out of this?
- Cause I can see where this is heading
- I'm in a weird place right now.
- This is what I'm offering
- If that's not what you want, tell me
If she wants more, get up and leave.
If she's cool, then you set the rules.
After rules are set, then you stick to them.
Traditionally guys do this after the first bang. But they set themselves up as players to begin with.
In the future, it's always better to start with the good time vibe even if you want a relationship. She has to win you over.
Keep in mind, I don't know the exact situation. Just understand the principles involved.
WIA