Quote: (05-09-2016 09:47 AM)Kid Twist Wrote:
General how many interactions do you guys pursue to establish comfort and/or by what meetup # would you not go past without getting any action?
It's fairly easy to tell with most if they've put you in the "Yeah, I'll bang him" category, but how long should you put up with the ASD?
It totally depends on the girl. I used to operate with the assumption:
"I must push the interaction as far as I can on the 1st date."
It backfired terribly in 2015. If the goal of game is to bang chicks, I was not doing well at all. I was only getting one bang for every 10 first dates. A 10% conversion. I outline my new strategy in this post:
thread-54567...pid1274079
It's hard for me to give advice, without knowing the specifics.
- Is she refusing to come in to your place?
- Does she come in to your place, but won't let you take off her underwear?
- On what date is this happening?
PapayaTapper has some good posts here on thinking about LMR:
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thread-52942...pid1191264
THC also has a good post on LMR:
http://swooptheworld.com/10-techniques-l...esistance/
I have more advice, but it's going to be dependent on whether she isn't taking her clothes off in the bedroom (dismantling LMR), she likes you but is afraid of having sex (you have to talk to her honestly to address this in the bedroom), she isn't coming over to your place (she doesn't really like you yet and your date game needs work).
I think the problem with putting a hard number on it, like saying "it has to happen by the 3rd date or else" puts tremendous pressure on you to seal the deal. She'll sense how much pressure you are on under, and she will be turned off.
Instead, I operate with the "I'm going to do my best, so sex happens on the 2nd (or 3rd) date. But if it doesn't happen, it's not a big deal. If I like the girl and want to see her again, I'll hit her up and we'll schedule another date. If I'm not really into this girl, I won't hit her back up and I'll text someone else."